What To Do When God Is Silent

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You pray every day and still feel like God is not listening. You read your Bible expecting Him to speak through it. But you hear nothing.

Just silence.

Nothing jumps off the page and grabs your attention. You start to doubt and get discouraged. You wonder what’s the point and you start to lose interest in praying and reading the Bible all together. What was once so exciting has now turned into bordum and even feels like a chore on the to do list.

What is happening?

Where are you Lord?

If you’ve ever wondered why God feels silent, questioned whether He hears your prayers, or felt tempted to give up on prayer and Bible reading altogether, you’re not alone. This season of silence can shake your faith—but it may also be an invitation to deeper trust and spiritual growth.

Is God Silent—or Is This a Spiritual Battle?

I am being reminded that the enemy wants me to be discouraged. He wants me to give up hope and stop praying and reading the Bible. He knows that is God’s primary way of speaking to me. So, if he can get me discouraged then I will want to give up and then Satan has won.

What we must recognize this as a spiritual battle and try not to fall for one of the enemy’s schemes. We need to have our spiritual armor on. Wielding the sword of the spirit, which is God’s Word. Repeating God’s Word back to Satan to defeat and stand up against him. God’s Word tells us repeatedly to continuously pray.

1 Thessalonians 5:17 says, “Pray without ceasing.”

And to not give up.

Galatians 6:9 which says, “And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.”

What God May Be Teaching You in a Season of Silence

Silence is hard to deal with. It’s like when someone is ignoring you. You start to wonder, is it me? Did I do something wrong? You try to figure out what it is that could possibly be keeping them from talking to you.

That is the same with God. We think of all the things we could have done to cause Him to be silent with us. But the majority of the time God isn’t silent because of something we did or didn’t do. He is silent to teach us or to help us grow. Maybe we are not yet ready to hear what He has to say. Maybe we need to learn to trust Him more. While He is putting us through a waiting period it is making us rely on Him more and more.

I am finding this to be true in my situation. I want more than anything to be in His will and to want what He wants for my life. With Him being silent just makes me want to push forward, drawing closer to Him until He does answer.

Again, God doesn’t want us to give up hope.

He wants us to keep moving forward despite what is happening or not happening around us. He wants us to be totally dependant on Him and not ourselves. Sometimes that can take awhile for us to learn. We are independent people and we want to take care of things are own way and in our own time.

God is not going to push us. He is going to wait on us to come to Him. God wants us to see that the best way possible is through Him and if that means we need to go through a little refinement, some testing, or some silence, then that is what will happen.

Even Jesus Experienced the Silence of God

Even Jesus felt the silence of God in Matthew 27:46, At about three o’clock, Jesus called out with a loud voice, “Eli, Eli, lema sabachthani?” which means “My God, my God, why have you abandoned me?”

Jesus knew what needed to be done in order to save us from eternal damnation, but it didn’t mean that He didn’t feel abandoned or left alone in the process. When we start to feel alone and not heard, we need to remember what Jesus said in prayer before His crucifixion.

Luke 22: 42 says, “Father, if you are willing, please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.”

Your will be done Father. Whatever I need to go through to receive your best let it be so.

Bottom line is God doesn’t want us to give up. He will answer in His timing. Take the silence as God telling you to draw closer to Him. When you do, that feeling of distance and discouragement will eventually go away. Just at the right time He will answer. Not a minute to soon or a minute too late.

A Next Step If You’re Walking Through God’s Silence

If you’re in a season where God feels silent, you don’t have to figure out your next step alone. Sometimes the most faithful thing we can do is simply keep showing up—one prayer, one Scripture, one day at a time.

To help you do that, I’ve created a Free 5-Day Devotional Series on Waiting on God for believers who are struggling to hear His voice, feeling discouraged in prayer, or learning how to trust Him in the silence. Over five days, you’ll be gently guided back to God’s Word and reminded that He is still near—even when He feels quiet.

👉 This devotional is meant to encourage you right where you are and help you keep seeking God without pressure or guilt.

If this season has revealed a deeper desire to hear God through Scripture and build a consistent rhythm of Bible reading and prayer, my book Unleash God’s Word in Your Life goes further by giving you practical, step-by-step guidance to stay rooted in God’s Word—especially during waiting seasons when faith feels hard.

Whether you start with the free devotional or dive deeper with the book, know this: God honors your persistence, and He will speak in His perfect timing.

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